How to Choose Matching Wedding Bands

Marriage is the union of two kindred spirits, so it makes sense that wedding bands should match—just like the couple wearing them. Of course, everyone is unique, and this idea might not work for some pairs. But for those who want their rings to truly reflect their bond, matching wedding bands are the perfect symbol.

They don’t have to be exactly the same, but coordinating bands showcase a special harmony that represents the couple’s connection. They capture two distinct personalities coming together as one.

So, how do you choose the right matching bands for you and your partner? Here are a few tips to help you out.

What to Think about When Choosing Matching Wedding Bands?

1. Metal

Of course, yellow gold is the most traditional metal for wedding bands, and there are some stunning examples of yellow gold couples’ bands.  However, if this is not for you, there are many other shades of gold that are becoming increasingly popular for wedding bands.

White gold, for example, is very popular as it compliments a wide variety of colors, making it ideal for daily use.  A mixture of white gold and other shades of gold like rose gold or black gold is also an exciting choice for a couple looking for something slightly different.

And hey, you don’t even have to stick with gold if you don’t want to. Platinum is a sleek, modern option for couples who want something different.

2. Gems

Traditional wedding rings don’t necessarily feature gems, but modern rings are bucking this trend and boldly displaying a wide variety of gems.  It is quite common to see wedding bands featuring an assortment of gemstones, not just diamonds.

Many couples’ rings feature gems on both bands, though sometimes the feminine ring contains a few more.  That being said, some sets feature gems on only the feminine ring and still others feature no gems at all.  It all depends on your taste as a couple and as individuals.

If you are a couple that wants to show your deep connection through your matching wedding bands, choosing matching gemstones is a beautiful idea.

But if you want to show your connection while still celebrating what makes you unique, you could go with stones that pair well together. For example, the light olive green of peridot and the rich green of emerald complement each other perfectly. Even though they’re similar in color, each stone has its own personality—just like your relationship with your partner.

3. Engraving

Engraving is another way to create subtle differences in similar wedding rings.  With our complimentary engraving service, you can stamp your individual flair on two identical rings through the use of personalized words or phrases.

Alternatively, you could create unity between two different rings by engraving the same words on both rings.

In either case, you can use this feature to characterize your relationship with your partner, giving tangibility to that way that feel about each other.

4. Fit

Fit is another important aspect to consider when choosing matching wedding rings.  Give some thought to how you want the ring to feel, taking into account that wedding rings are traditionally worn daily.

The comfort fit ring, often called the ‘court shape’, is a very popular choice for wedding bands.  This is because both the inside and the outside of the ring is curved, which gives the wearer a greater sense of space.  With the comfort fit ring, it feels as if there is less metal pressing on the finger. This is especially good for people who are new to wearing rings.

Alternatively there is the standard fit, or D-Shaped wedding band.  The inside of this ring is flat, so that if it were cut in half, the cut section would resemble the letter D.

5. Style

As is the case with metals and gems, there are many, many styles to choose from. Ranging from outright traditional to modern and trendy, matching bands offer couples of all tastes a chance to express their commitment through jewelry.  Just be sure to choose a style that works for both of you as a couple as well as individually. Marriage is about compromise, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t both be exceptionally happy with your rings.